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Teri Ketchie's avatar

I only met your dad once, maybe in 1981, when he came out to Santa Barbara for one of your first art exhibits. I'm sure the evening had a theme, but what I remember is a collage of Picasso's head in the bull's eye of a super imposed dart board. (Where is that, by the way?) Your dad, all curly red hair and smiles, charmed me onto the dance floor. I thought he was a really good dancer, and I had a lot of fun. He seemed happy to see you in your element. And I never imagined I wouldn't see him again.

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Mary Anne Cook's avatar

My dad also died at 54 - When I, and especially my brother, turned 54, we realized how we’d never really allowed ourselves to imagine living beyond that and now had to open up to the possibility of a long life. Odd. I loved the LA essay, especially this line: "hauling huge bags of goose feathers into the clouds."

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